Dongguan.
Haitong, with the child in tow, walked out of the airport under the protection of bodyguards and nannies.
“Daddy.”
She spotted her husband who had come to pick them up at a glance.
The two children’s eyes were sharp too. Upon seeing Daddy, Baby immediately broke free from Mummy’s hand and ran quickly towards Daddy.
He wanted to get there first, let Daddy hug him. Once his sister arrived, Daddy would only hug her.
No matter how sensible Zhan Muchen was, he was still just a six-year-old child.
“Daddy.”
Beibei was very anxious. She struggled to get down.
Haitong had no choice but to put her down. The little girl immediately dashed towards Daddy with her short legs.
A bodyguard and the nanny followed immediately.
Haitong was not in a hurry.
Let the children get close to Zhan Yin first.
Zhan Yin had waited a long time at the airport.
He arrived two hours early and had been waiting until now to finally see his wife and children.
“Baby.”
After not seeing his pair of children for a while, Zhan Yin missed them to the point of madness.
His usual stern expression had long vanished.
He strode forward, scooped up his running son, and spun him around a few times, making Zhan Muchen laugh heartily.
“Daddy, I miss you.”
Once Daddy stopped spinning, Baby threw his arms around Daddy’s neck, expressing his longing.
“Daddy misses you too.”
Zhan Yin put his son down. “Alright, sister is here.”
Baby pouted and said, “Since sister came, Daddy only has eyes for her. He does not love Baby anymore.”
Zhan Yin chuckled and lightly pinched his son’s little face. “How could that be. You hold a different place in Daddy’s heart. Daddy loves you. You are Mummy and Daddy’s first child. How could we not love you.”
“Sister is still small, and there is only one sister, so Daddy dotes on her a bit more. But in terms of your weight in Daddy’s heart, you still rank ahead of her.”
The six-year-old Zhan Muchen already weighed several dozen jin. Beibei was only one and a half, not skinny, but just over twenty jin, naturally not as heavy as her brother.
Zhan Yin’s words carried a deeper meaning. The little baby did not yet have Daddy’s cunning depth and was coaxed into believing he ranked ahead of his sister in Daddy’s heart.
He did not know the weight Daddy meant was not the same as what he thought.
“Does Baby like sister?”
Zhan Yin was still worried his son might be jealous of his daughter.
“I like her. I like sister the most. Daddy, I will not compete with sister for attention.”
Zhan Yin smiled. “Baby is the best.”
The little one had forgotten he just complained that Daddy only liked sister and thought Daddy did not love him anymore.
“Daddy and Mummy will like Baby even more. Baby is a good boy.”
No wonder experienced parents always say that after having a second child, they need to love the first one even more. Only then will the child not feel lost, not think their love has been taken by the sibling, and will love the sibling too.
But many parents, after having a second child, feel the second needs more care because they are smaller, neglect the eldest, forget the eldest is still a child, always demand the eldest be sensible and obedient, yet overlook that the eldest is still a child.
The eldest also needs parents’ love and care.
Under parental neglect, the eldest easily feels hurt and disappointed, then becomes rebellious or sullen, completely like a different person.
Parents only blame the eldest for turning bad, criticise, scold, even hit the child, but never look for reasons in themselves.
